I get asked this a lot. Variations include “Where do you get your confidence” and “How can I become as good as all the other girls”.
What I want to know is, when did we all forget how to sex?
Sex is raw instinct. We are biologically programmed to reproduce. It is a factory installed operation that comes with no rules, no instructions. Penis + Vagina = Sex. Simple.
It’s not mean’t to play out like the perfectly scripted final cut of a porn film, with infinite wetness, perfect sound bites and ongoing erections. There will be elbows in faces, slurping noises, broken beds, mess, strange, animalistic grunts and uncontrollable laughter. Men will miss and hit you in the wrong spot, women will catch with their teeth occasionally and sometimes embarrassment will occur.
Embrace it. There are no rules or rehearsals and it can’t be edited afterwards. No matter what you do, enjoy it. Laugh at it, cry about it, do it in every room in the house or only ever in a darkened room under the sheets - it doesn’t matter as long as it is pleasurable to you.
Its not about kneeling in an enviably stylish room with perfect hair while Mr Von Hugendong wanks over your perfectly made up face.
Its about the purest pleasure of all. Your pleasure.
Does it feel good for you? Then yes. You are doing it right.
Hugendong...lmao!
ReplyDeleteLove this post. You explain it so well. When one stops thinking and lets instincts take over, the sex is far better than a porn movie. Yes, Sir has hit me wrong. Ouch it hurts, but we just keep doing what we were doing. It happens. To me means He wants me real bad. :)