Emergency!

My ex boyfriend, R, knew I liked it rough. Oh boy did he know how to give it to me, despite being under average (this is not a dig at his size at all because my god, he knew how to work it).

It was great. It was pure, vanilla love. Unfortunately there were two incidents - one which landed me in hospital - which I only wish I had foreseen before we went at it so hard we even cracked one of the floorboards.

Sub Drop

Now that I have the experience I know how to handle any injures or crises what may arise. Starting simply, sub drop is a common phenomenon in D/s relationships. In a nutshell, sub drop can involve anything from feeling a little down to very depressed through to full blown flu like feelings. It is also worth mentioning that the drop can hit you any time between a few minutes to a whole week afterwards. Physical symptoms can include feeling shaky and light-headed, fatigue, muscle aches and headaches. There are emotional symptoms too, which generally derive from a chemical imbalance in the body, including 

It's important in such situations for the Dominant in the relationship knows the signs and how to carry out after care appropriately. It is equally important for the Submissive to communicate exactly what they require in after care to the Dominant - whether a long term partner or a first time play partner.

First Aid/Emergency Kit

Our first aid kit includes a number of items for different occurrences.

For Sub Drop:

- Favorite Blanket & Pillow
- Little Bunny (childhood plushie)
- Crisps
- Chocolate
- Wine/Pepsi/Water/Teabags
- Free Cuddles
- A Notepad & Pen (So i can write)

For Minor Injuries:

- Elastoplast Spray Plaster
- Antiseptic Wipes
- Aloe Vera Burn Gel
- Lidocane Numbing Cream
- Plasters
- Bandages
- Sterile Gauze
- Steri-Strips
- Pain Relief (Paracetamol, Ibuprofen)
- Arnica Gel (Perfect for Bruising)

For Emergency Situations:

- EMT Scissors (Rope Play)
- Benadryl allergy tablets
- Eye Rinse
- Arm Sling
- Splints
- Heat Pack
- Cold Pack
- Muslin Cloths
- Hot and cold compress

I would also recommend (especially if you attend play parties) that you take a basic first aid course and/or carry a manual on the basics. You have no idea how handy it is when you find yourself needing it.

The most important thing is to try and prevent accidents from happening in the first place, but by having the equipment you need there when you need it you can prevent further illness or injury.




Ok, so I guess we are cheating a little. Having a boisterous boy-child in the house means we already have a lot of these things anyway. At least we don't have to explain why we have a whole safety cupboard.